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Changing The "Natural Hair" Stigma



When you hear women refer to themselves as "natural" visions of mounds of untamed hair, afro's, and dry kinky coils may appear in your head. Now I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with wearing your hair in an fro, by all means, if you like it, we love it. I'm just saying that wasn't the look that I was personally going for. Honestly, I believe this is one of the biggest reasons why black women are so afraid to let go of their relaxer. So, when my hair dresser suggested that I cut out my perm (which had my hair about as brittle as a saltine cracker) I looked at her like she was crazy.

After some thought and research, I finally realized, just because a woman of color chooses to wear her hair "natural" doesn't mean she has to walk around looking like a woman of the wild. There are plenty of "glam-friendly" hairstyles that allow you to both maintain your preferred straight look AND protect the health of your NATURAL tresses.


1.) Dominican Blowouts 
Want your hair super straight, but don't want to add too much heat? I am almost 100% sure that your local Dominican hair salon can help you out with that. This procedure usually includes, a wash & condition, getting your hair blown out with a round brush, and lightly pressed with the flat iron. The hair dressers use products that promote hair growth as well as protect your hair from the heat applied. A Dominican Blowout is very low maintenance (just requires a simple wrap & headscarf at night) and will last you anywhere between 2-3 weeks. Be consistent with this styling and you'll start to notice your hair growing (healthy) in no time.


2.) Weaves
Of course weaves are the ultimate glam "natural" hair style. This is because weaves are so versatile that you can achieve maximum styling while majority of your real hair is protected underneath. Usually with this style, women braid their hair and sew (or glue) tracks onto those braids to create the illusion of a full head of flowing hair. When wearing a weave, you should leave out as little hair as possible, just enough to cover your tracks, and ALWAYS remember to use a heat protectant before applying heat. This style will last you anywhere from 1-3 months and with proper maintenance of your hair underneath, you should definitely experience hair growth when you remove the install.


3.) Buns
This classic up-do is super cute, and super simple to create and maintain. This style is ideal for natural hair gals because it is a great protective style and requires no heat at all. How healthy is that?! A bun can be achieved easily, and if you have trouble laying down those untamed edges, try some pomade and a tight scarf for 5-10 minutes.


4.) Wigs
When most women hear the word "wig" they automatically turn up their noses at the thought. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wearing a wig, especially if it is a good one. I recommend purchasing a wig (or making your own) that is made out of 100% human hair. Synthetic wigs tend to look fake and don't last for very long, while human hair wigs look more natural and can be styled a variety of ways. If you think you'd feel uncomfortable in a wig, it may help to try one with bangs. This style is great for those transitioning because it's removable, perfect for maintaining for your healthy hair care regimen and protecting hair.

Take Care of that Hair Under There!



Just because you have extensions in doesn't mean you should neglect your real hair under there!
Wearing virgin hair extensions should motivate you to care for your natural hair as well as those expensive additions.

Even if you don't feel comfortable with thoroughly washing & conditioning your braided hair underneath (because its a lot of work and absolutely MUST be done correctly to prevent mildew) you should still keep your hair and scalp well hydrated.

*Top 5 Best Scalp Oils*

1.) Extra Virgin Olive Oil- Yes the one that you cook with! This oil has the ability to penetrate the hair shaft. It nourishes, moisturizes, and conditions hair while relieving dry scalp (dandruff).

2.) Jojoba Oil- Great for all hair types, especially dry or damaged hair. This oil is the closest to the scalp's natural secreted oils, therefore very beneficial in moisturizing both hair and scalp.

3.) Virgin Coconut Oil- With it's antibacterial and anti-fungal properties, this oil is great for treating and preventing scalp problems. It's great for softening & conditioning strands, as well as retaining length.

4.) Grapeseed Oil- Odorless, with a non- greasy texture, this oil is perfect if you are afraid of weighing your hair down. It's easily absorbed, moisturizing & nourishing to reduce brittleness.

5.) Sweet Almond Oil- This natural oil is rich in vitamins A, B1, B6, and E. It contains antioxidants that promote circulation in the scalp, creating strong and healthy hair growth. 




All of these oils are very light and can be easily applied between your wefts using an applicator bottle (which can be bought at any beauty supply store).

Target the oil application directly to your scalp to avoid getting it on your extensions. Remember to squeeze the bottle very lightly, when it comes to oil, a little goes a long way!

My All Time Fav Moisturizing Serum

Organix Nourishing Coconut Milk Serum
Between $6-$8 USD at Walmart or Walgreens


This serum is by far the best product that I have found to use on both my real hair AND my extensions as a daily moisturizer. 

Top 3 reasons why I love it:

1.) Non greasy and light-weight enough for daily use. 

2.) A little goes a long way so this small bottle lasts a LONG time.

3.) Instantly conditions hair leaving it softer and shinier. 


This serum is ideal for both straight AND curly styles.